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Parental Alienation Do’s and Don’ts

Posted by: Forever on: September 16, 2009

What you do and don’t do when as a loving parent you are confronted with a severe case of Parental Alienation Syndrome in your child?

PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME – DO’S
DO…start to immediately educate yourself, your lawyer, your Judge, your psychologist and your child, if possible, about PAS.
This is one of the most widespread forms of [...]

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Collin County Father Talks to Its Almost Tuesday

Posted by: Forever on: April 11, 2008

I received an email from the Collin County father asking me to let you all know that they have a full feature film coming out, all proceeds go to their children in a trust fund.
He says they are still fighting to get them back thru the court system in Collin County Texas. They [...]

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High court ruling is victory for victims of child abuse in Hawaii

Posted by: Forever on: April 8, 2008

The state Supreme Court has upheld an award to be paid by the state to a Maui girl whose previous injury was under investigation by Child Protective Services.
Child Protective Services has been told by the state Supreme Court that it is responsible for the welfare of children subject to abuse. A $1.1 million judgment was [...]

Let Sex Offenders Walk & They Prey On Our Kids

Posted by: Forever on: April 6, 2008

Sex offenders speak out

JEREMY PHILLIPS
The Ellis County Press
ELLIS COUNTY – Last week, a controversial series by The Ellis County Press exposed the problems of sex offenders on probation in Ellis County versus those who were sentenced to prison.The numbers revealed more than 75 percent of registered sex offenders in Ellis County received probation instead of [...]

How many more in Collin County Texas? Let us know…

Posted by: Forever on: April 5, 2008

I would like to comment on the article I posted Disgusted with the system: cbs11tv.com – North Texas Man Fighting For Custody Of His Kids
and thank the blogger who originally posted it, Louise, whose blog Disgusted With The System, is one of my favorites.
Collin County, Texas seems to have a trend in their cases with [...]

Children in Foster and Kinship Care at Risk

Posted by: Forever on: April 2, 2008

Children in Foster and Kinship Care at Risk for
Inadequate Health Care Coverage and Access
Changes in Health Care Financing & Organization — findings brief  .pdf file

Historically, federal child welfare policy has overlooked the role of kinship caregivers, and, if
states provided assistance, it was  done through income-assistance  programs. Now, children are
preferentially channeled into formal kinship care by [...]

FLORIDA Child Protection Agency spokesman faces child-porn charges

Posted by: Forever on: February 18, 2008

Article published Feb 5, 2008
DCF to review personnel records
Agency spokesman faces child-porn charges
By Bill Cotterell
FLORIDA CAPITAL BUREAU POLITICAL EDITOR The head of the Department of Children and Families, “horrified and shocked” by the arrest of his agency spokesman on child-pornography charges, Monday ordered a review of personnel records for all DCF employees.
DCF Secretary Bob Butterworth [...]

Hostile? Leave the kids out of it…

Posted by: Forever on: December 24, 2007

“Brainwashing” is a concept “too narrow” (Gardner, 1989) to capture the psychological manipulation involved in turning a child against his/her non-residential parent.

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How to Bond With Your (Foster) Child

Posted by: Forever on: December 24, 2007

Top 10 Five Minute Bonding Activities
From Carrie Craft,
Your Guide to Adoption / Foster Care.
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These activities are not for every foster/adoptive parent or every foster/adoptive child. Only do what is comfortable for you and your foster/adopted child.
Keep in mind:

Child’s Age – Chronological and Emotional
Child’s History of Abuse and/or Neglect
Comfort Levels

Please note that [...]

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Register Your Case Against the Department of Social and Health Services

Posted by: Forever on: December 18, 2007

A lawsuit has been filed and is seeking class action status against the department alleging violations of constitutional rights. Nine Latina child care workers claim the state came into their homes and seized personal records in search of ‘phantom children’. The lawsuit also alleges discrimination against child care workers on the basis of ethnicity and [...]


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It's Almost Tuesday is a fictional story based on true events of abuse within the Texas Foster Care System. The story is written as if told by an 8 year old foster child using his exact words whenever possible.

Study: Troubled homes are STILL better than foster care

Kids who stayed with their families were less likely to become juvenile delinquents or teen mothers and more likely to hold jobs as young adults than kids who were removed into foster care.


Arrested at least once:

�14% oif Kids Who Stayed with family: were arrested at least once rather than 44% of Kids Who Went to foster care!



33 % of Kids who stayed with their family Became teen mothers: but more than half (56%) of Kids Who Went to foster care became teen mothers!



33% of kids who stayed with their family held a job at least 3 months: as opposed to merely 20 % of the Kids Who Went to foster care!



Out of 500,000 children in U.S. foster care
Statistics show that foster children are more likely than other kids to drop out of school,
commit crimes,
abuse drugs
and become teen parents!



Teens aging out of foster care have spent nearly five years there That's twice the average length of time for all kids in the system.

Fewer than 3% earn college degrees.


Teens in foster care are less likely to finish high school and more likely to go to prison or become homeless.


How can the government tell us, with statistics like this, that this is protecting the kids?

CP$ KNOW$ THE GUILTY ONE$

Caseworker: We know your husband is guilty, you've got
to force him into admitting it.


Mother: How do you know he's guilty?


Caseworker: We know he's guilty because he says he's
innocent. Guilty people always say they're innocent.


Mother: What do innocent people say?


Caseworker: We're not in the business of guilty or
innocent. We're in the business of putting families
together.


Mother: So why not do that with us?


Caseworker: Because he won't admit his guilt.


(Source:) Wounded Innocents: The Real Victims of the War on Child Abuse (Paperback) by Richard Wexler

CLICK HERE to DOWNLOAD AUDIO FILE

of CPS Caught On Tape

A foster child carries a realistic looking cap gun in his pocket from the foster home to a visit; the children were given these guns and taught how to shoot them in target practice at a foster camp. At the time this child was only 8 years old; taking high doses of psychotropic medications.


Blog Note: If a parent carried the same toy gun into the same visit, that parent would definitely be arrested and probably lose their rights to visit their children.

Tuesday’s Poll

Do you believe that CPS serves the best interest of the children? Or the Government?

(polls)

Families Rights Should Be Protected

"Because the swing of every pendulum brings with it potential adverse consequences, it is important to emphasize that in the area of child abuse, as with the investigation and prosecution of all crimes, the state is constrained by the substantive and procedural guarantees of the Constitution.


The fact that the suspected crime may be heinous – whether it involves children or adults - does not provide cause for the state to ignore the rights of the accused or any other parties.



Otherwise, serious injustices may result. "


Syl.Pt.3,WALLIS v. SPENCER, 202 F.3d 1126(9th Cir. 2000)




Tuesday’s Topics

Quotes From Foster Children

Mother meant the whole world to me and there wasn’t anything I could do to get her back. It was like I had lost everything. Lucie, Age 19

I felt so bad for my mom and I constantly felt like it was my fault because I couldn’t do anything to stop it.
PoemGirl, Age 17

I felt so disappointed and heartbroken. I hated my life.
Brittany, Age 13

How does it feel to be a Foster Child? It’s like being in a great world of your own. MARK, Age 12

I felt very sad and I knew I could not do anything about it. I had to get over it. I know how it feels to be pushed around. I have been there.Einstein, Age 11

The placements did not work because in my heart I felt alone but in my mind I felt grown….The only problem in the home was me. There I was almost thirteen and hated the world. I could not trust anyone. I didn’t want to trust anyone. How could I trust someone? I had to
protect myself from hurt. The only way I could do that was to guard my heart….I messed up four homes because of this. Flower Girl, Age 18

I think that when you become an adult it’s just like a toddler you’re a caterpillar, and when you’re a kid you’re a cocoon and finally you become an adult which would be a butterfly. Jesse, Age 9

We should all make our foster care family a possibility.
MeMe, Age 17

The best advice I have from one foster child to another is that you never give up….Never think that you are worthless. Jane, Age 10

Tuesday to Tuesday

Tomorrow’s Healthy Adults Come From Today’S Teachings


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Institute for Youth Development is a non-partisan, non-profit organization that promotes a comprehensive risk avoidance message to youth.


4Parents.gov is a guide to help you and your teen discuss important, yet difficult, issues about healthy choices, sex and relationships.

The NAEA
exists to serve, support and represent individuals and organizations in the practice of abstinence-centered education.

Abstinence Works provides recent news, articles, and studies validating the efficacy of abstinence education.

The Abstinence Clearinghouse is a privately funded 501(c)3 non-profit, non-partisan international educational organization. The Clearinghouse was founded to provide a central location where character, relationship, and abstinence programs, curricula, speakers, and materials could be accessed. The Clearinghouse serves agencies on a national, state and local level, as well as international organizations.


The Medical Institute for Sexual Health is an organization that has a tremendous heart for the health and well-being of all. It is committed to teaching people how to make good choices and adopt healthy behaviors that enable them to achieve their highest potential.

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CPS’ Death of 5 Year Old

The Logan Marr Case






The death of a 5 year old in CPS' care.

RSS Dallas Opinions on ElDorado:FLDS Kids

  • Texan of the Year -- a vote for U.S. military November 7, 2009
    The carnage at Fort Hood and flareups in Afghanistan bring into focus the sacrifice made by our armed forces. Colleague Tod Robberson recently nominated the Texas military as a candidate for 2009 Texan of the Year. It's a good time to share his thoughts in getting this nomination on our list. He wrote: Texans in military uniform Texas supplies far more […]
  • Hinojosa Potemkin school follow-up November 6, 2009
    DISD spokesman Jon Dahlander said the other day he would look into the allegation a DISD school staffer made to me that Dr. Hinojosa's staff members had come to their school to do advance work prior to the superintendent's visit, and had made the school a kind of Potemkin village for him. I posted on that the other day. Dahlander e-mails today: It […]
  • Recommended reading of the highest order November 6, 2009
    You probably feel it too. Hammered by the news of the Fort Hood rampage, grieving for mostly still-nameless victims caught in the crossfire. But wait, now somebody's shooting folks in Orlando. You want to just get back in bed and pull the covers over your head. Instead, I recommend you read this. It's unfortunate timing that DMN sports writer Kevin […]
  • My take on Nidal Hasan's Fort Hood massacre November 6, 2009
    Click here to read it. --Rod Dreher/Columnist
  • Civic $pirit in Big D November 6, 2009
    I know the new perfoming arts venues in the Arts District are so last month's news. But if you'll allow me, I'd like to point your attention to this article in The Economist. It hits on an important point: the City of Dallas didn't pay for these buildings, private citizens put up the cash. How can Dallas afford all this, and in straitened […]

Foster Care – Go On!

by Crystal, age 13


Have you ever said mom, dad I love you?
Have you ever hugged them goodbye?
Well have you ever sat in a room and cried?
Well I can’t everyday say I love you mom, or
dad I can’t say goodbye!
Sometimes when I visit my dad and I have to be supervised!
How would you feel to live in a different home every couple of months?
You can’t stay in one place...
You always feel like you are replaced!
People saying they don’t want you there...
People lying so they won’t hurt your feelings!
People watching your every footstep while you sit there crying.
They can’t hold you like your parents.
I have to say I’m strong when I move there.
So I can GO ON

How would you feel to lift your head and see someone everyday that is not your mom and dad?
Would you cry, would you worry?
Or would you fly or would you scurry?
Sometimes you have to let go.
Sometimes you have to turn away.
Sometimes you let the tears drop,
And let them flow anyway.
There is more hurt to this than you will ever feel!
To see your mother die on mother’s day...
I have to GO ON is all you can say

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TEXAS FOSTER KIDS – STILL FORGOTTEN



”I saw filthy living conditions, make-shift outhouses, unsanitary food storage, in so-called outdoor camps where children must sleep in sleeping bags - no walls, no fans, no heat - for months and months and in many cases, year after year.

That’s not care. That’s cruelty.



That’s not educating.

That’s endangering” Carol Strayhorn on Texas Foster Care System in 2004

National Center For Missing and Exploited Kids








RSS Special Thanks to Legally Kidnapped

  • DAILY MAIL COMMENT: Discipline, 'tough love' and child abuse November 9, 2009
    DAILY MAIL COMMENT: Discipline, 'tough love' and child abuseNote: I love this line...This grotesque heavy-handedness shows how the state and its ever-growing army of liberal do-gooders now feel they have the right to intrude into areas of family life that are none of their business.Note: Get it through your self-righteous, babystealing heads! Our c […]
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  • Claims of sex abuse by women grow November 9, 2009
    Claims of sex abuse by women growA huge rise in the number of children calling to report sexual abuse by women has been revealed by ChildLine.
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  • Why did the social worker wake up with a brain the size of a pea? November 8, 2009
    Her head swelled over night.
    LK
  • Police secretly stalking I mean follow mother after hearing her reprimand children November 8, 2009
    Police secretly follow mother after hearing her reprimand childrenA mother who threatened to smack her children while out shopping was secretly followed home by an off duty policeman and was later questioned by officers.
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  • Relocation of Children after Divorce and Children's Best Interests: New Evidence and Legal Considerations November 8, 2009
    Relocation of Children after Divorce and Children's Best Interests: New Evidence and Legal Considerations State courts have rightly termed relocation cases, in which a custodial parent's desire to move away with the child is opposed by the other parent, one of the knottiest and most disturbing problems courts face. The recent trend is to permit suc […]
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  • AP IMPACT: Framed for child porn _ by a PC virus November 8, 2009
    AP IMPACT: Framed for child porn _ by a PC virusOf all the sinister things that Internet viruses do, this might be the worst: They can make you an unsuspecting collector of child pornography.Heinous pictures and videos can be deposited on computers by viruses — the malicious programs better known for swiping your credit card numbers. In this twist, it's […]
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  • Oh, I almost forgot. . . November 8, 2009
    Are the family rights people being censored by those stealing our children?Back in September, our beloved Brenda left a comment on this foster contractors blog. The foster contractor responded just a couple days ago. I posted a link in the newsgroup, and know that Brenda and a couple others responded.Oh, I almost forgot. . .This person has refused to publish […]
    LK
  • ‘He will not have died in vain' November 8, 2009
    ‘He will not have died in vain'Woman who shot ex-husband shares his story of mental illness
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  • Man's e-mail about DSS sent to his employer November 8, 2009
    Man's e-mail about DSS sent to his employerAs news spread about possible missing money from the Department of Social Services Christmas charity, Harry Lomax and other donors contacted Mecklenburg County leaders to complain.
    LK
  • UK State to Take Unborn Baby November 8, 2009
    UK State to Take Unborn BabyKerry Robertson, 17, and Mark McDougall, 25, haven’t broken any law. But they are on the run from the authorities, and from their home in Dunfermline, Scotland.
    LK

RSS CPS – A System Out of Control

  • Foster Care Baby Adoption November 9, 2009
    Editor's Note: More CPS and foster care propaganda for the month! This is funny because CPS doesn't give a rat's hairy hinney whether the foster "parents" can love and care for the child. So long as CPS is getting the money for them, they can beat the shit out of them on a daily basis for all they care. God help you if you call in an […]
    Divotdawg
  • Myrtle Beach Seaside Resorts November 8, 2009
    Planning a Christmas vacation? Myrtle Beach Resorts has a lot of different packages designed to fit any budget. They have 1, 2 and 3 bedroom condos and hotel rooms located at various spots around the Grand Strand. You can choose from a wide assortment of resorts includingGrande Shores, Seaside, Prince Resort, Towers on the Grove, Horizon and Avista Resort. T […]
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  • We All Have An Important Role in Helping Prevent Child Abuse November 8, 2009
    Editor's Note: More CPS propaganda for National Adoption Month. See my comment at the end. To post your own, please visit...lubbockonline.com/stories/110809/edi_513984749.shtml#mdw-commentsWe all have an important role in helping prevent child abuseLubbock Avalanche-JournalSunday, November 08, 2009Story last updated at 11/8/2009 - 12:27 amYou suspect a […]
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  • Posted On: My Life in a Foster Care Space Warp: November 8, 2009
    Friday, November 6, 2009Oh, I almost forgot. . .Back in September Brenda commented:You guys must feel pretty good about yourselves, adopting out of the foster care system and all of that. Just a quick question here. Did any of their biological parents sign over their rights to you or were they terminated by the court? See, I have a big, big problem with peop […]
    Divotdawg
  • Hand Deliver Your Letter to Congress November 8, 2009
    Rally Congress will shortly print and deliver your letters to Capitol Hill.An individual copy of your letter will go to each official:November 8, 2009Dear Sen. Patrick Leahy (D VT),Sen. Bernard Sanders (I VT),Rep. Peter Welch (D VT-0),Nationwide, there are State run agencies who are supposed to be protecting abused children in dangerous situations. Each Stat […]
    Divotdawg
  • CPS Wrongful Removal of Baby November 8, 2009
    This is an outrage!!!
    Divotdawg
  • Legal Child Kidnapping YouTube Video November 8, 2009
    Divotdawg
  • Madison County DFCS Wants More Pictures of Foster Care Kids November 8, 2009
    Editor's Note: I bet the real reason they want these pictures is so that they can show them to future foster/adopt care providers in hopes of getting that adoption bonus money. They want them to look "normal" and undamaged by the abuse caused by CPS themselves. If they're truly concerned about the families, then why don't they stop u […]
    Divotdawg
  • What Rights Does a CPS Worker Have? November 7, 2009
    By: Leonard HendersonThe ExaminerWhen people find themselves under a CPS "investigation", we are SHOCKED. We grew up watching crime and court dramas on TV and we have the idea that in America, the justice system is fair and impartial. Some of us even know about Constitutional Due Process. We see the television coverage of major criminals' jour […]
    Divotdawg
  • Mother Found Not Guilty of Child Abuse November 7, 2009
    Editor's Note: Now that she's been found not guilty by a criminal court, I wonder if she'll get her child back out of the clutches of CPS. Somehow I seriously doubt it. They don't care what's right or wrong here, they only want the money. If you'd like to make a comment on this story, there's a link at the bottom of this po […]
    Divotdawg

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